An Excerpt from Sowing in Tears
I have chosen to call this “A Path to Wholeness” not “The Path to Wholeness” because I don’t pretend to have a monopoly on the act of coming free in Christ. All we have to do is walk through the Gospels to see that no two healings looked exactly alike, and so it would be presumptuous of me to assume that I had some sort of a market on how to go free from the wounds of the soul that are the unfortunate birthright of everyone born into planet earth. 
What I have attempted to do here is only to communicate what has worked for me and what I believe with all of my heart that God led me to several years ago. I do this with “fear and trembling” (1 Corinthians 2:3) and with the sincerest desire that maybe, in some way, someone else could benefit and even be set free by doing what I have done. The apostle Paul said, “Follow my example as I follow the example of Christ” (1 Corinthians 11:1), and I believe that our lives should be lived in such a way that others could follow our footsteps and find the Lord.
I also believe that this is a key to emotional freedom, but it is not the key. There are actually many. Issues of faith, positive confession, and the walk of the Spirit are among the other components of coming out of emotional bondage. We need them all and should not focus on one to the exclusion of others. However, there are many excellent teachers in the Body of Christ who teach in these areas, and I don’t want to reinvent the wheel. This teaching is a part of the story that has been focused on too little, and my job here is to put it forth as clearly as I can, but I do that recognizing that we must have all the teaching of the Church working together to set captives free.
I said that no two healings looked alike in the Scriptures, and yet there are some guiding principles that are at work in God’s Word and in the world we live in that we would be wise to take note of. My goal is to set these before the reader in the hope that you will search your Bible on your own (something that happens far too little in the Body of Christ) and judge for yourself. Please read this in tandem with the Scriptures. 
If you have suffered with a checkered past I want to encourage you to give this a shot. You may have tried lots of things with some or possibly no result but, please, my friend, do not give up. I believe that God has led you to pick this up for a reason. What have you got to lose!? And you might have everything to gain. 
I invite you (albeit an unusual invitation) to join me at the foot of the cross where we will face our pain and inner loneliness in His Presence. It will hurt, we will shed some, probably many, tears, but we will also be transformed. You may be surprised at what you find! As painful as it may seem right now, this is an exciting journey. It begins in tears, but it ends with a harvest.
I promise. 
I believe that you have a desire to be whole. Join me then, warts and hurt, and all, and let’s be forever changed in His Presence.
What a privilege!